Friday, August 6, 2010

Death Knocked Today!

My mother is a care provider for a couple and she loves what she does, but today she experiences the con's of her job, Death!  She's been around it a lot from those who aren't afraid to those who fear it & cry to hold on to their last breath.  I guess you can say my mom is 'That' that they hold on to, she sticks by them 'til they let go.  He let go this morning, and my mom was loved that last night he told her 'I love you soo much.'  My moms in tears, she made me cry, and I'm sure she's going to be sad along with the old lady and the family.  Out of all the people she has taken care of this one hit her. She loves them so much and now she only has one of them to care for. The sad thing is that in most cases when one of them dies, the other one follows.  I guess its just living for them is what gives you strength to wake up every day, and when one dies, the other ones strength just gets flushed.  Maybe that's why women live longer, because we take care of our family, when the children are all grown up, the husband is all that's left to care for, & when he let's go we have no one else as a responsibility since grand children have their parents. Its just life!  I pray he's in Heaven right now and God's wiping away his tears.     

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  1. you made me cry Sandra... but you're right its life. i love you girl :)

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